We’re comfortably settled in the Love Shack and enjoying our bed.  Our exercise and healthy eating regimen has become habit.  And YES.  We are STILL having sex 4 times a week!  I’d say that we are now 3 or 4 months into “the agreement” (which I initiated); with the main difference being that it’s finally about pleasure, instead of duty.  Well, I’m sure it was about pleasure all along for Sexy Hubby, but now it is for me too! 

If I stopped here, this would be a happy ending.  But no, it turns out that this is only the tip of the iceberg for us.  The sexual reconnection is SUPER important, but it’s only a part of what is happening.

Imagine having been with someone for 27 years, and experiencing new relationship energy with them.  That’s what was happening.  Even going to the gym is a date, complete with flirting during our workout.  Sexy Hubby is definitely letting me know through words and actions that he is very happy with my progress.  And not just because of how it benefits him.  He is genuinely happy for me!  Eating right and exercising is starting to show.  We are both dropping weight, getting stronger, and increasing stamina.  We look better AND we feel better!  We are in a positive spiral of improvement!! 

Guess what??  Sex is even better when your fitness level improves!!

Significant Event Number 5:  I shaved my pussy!

 

Stop laughing!!  This was a big step for me!  Other than a little bikini line trim once in a blue moon, I had never shaved or waxed.  I’m not counting the horrible C-section shave either.  Sexy Hubby had made this request a few times over the years and I had always responded with a big NOOOOO!!!!  When he brought it up this time, I decided what the hell??  If I didn’t like it, it would just grow back.  This was a request.  It was still my decision.  And I was making more decisions that took me just outside my comfort zone.  

Not only did I agree to shave my pussy, I let Sexy Hubby do it! 

With much fanfare, he placed a towel on the bed for me to lie on, got a bowl of warm water and a washcloth, shaving cream, a razor – and went to work.  It was ridiculously HOT having him attend to me in this way.  He was so careful and even though I felt a bit self-conscious – being so open, legs up, whatever it took for him to get everywhere, I was actually enjoying myself! 

Once he was done, I was carefully wiped down with a warm washcloth, and then came the inspection.  With his tongue!!  Talk about positive reinforcement!  Not a quick inspection – oh no!  It was a slow and thorough inspection ending in orgasmic bliss!!!! 

This became a ritual event on at least a weekly basis.  In hindsight, I can only wonder what took me so long to give this a try.  This may not be for everyone, but it turns out that it was definitely for me.  I love how it feels to be smooth all over, and it made me feel sexy – a HUGE psychological benefit!

Significant Event Number 6:  Anywhere!  Anytime!

Sexy Hubby was getting more confident as time passed regarding how things should move forward sexually. 

It was clear to me now, that I turned him on!  He’d see me naked brushing my teeth in the bathroom and get hard.  I’d be in panties and a top in the kitchen, and he’d get hard.  And the look in his eyes!  WOW! 

Suffice it to say that sex was no longer a weekend only event.  In fact, Sexy Hubby decided to implement a new “rule”.   In our apartment, the rule was, ANYWHERE, ANYTIME!!  You heard that right!  I might be loading clothes into the washing machine when Sexy Hubby would come up behind me, pull my jeans and panties down, and fuck me.  A real favorite of his was in the bathroom, me bent over the counter in front of the big mirror.  Nothing was off limits in the apartment.  This put me into a perpetual ready mode.  It might just be fingering, or I might be placed on the kitchen counter for a little lick fest. 

The sexual energy was ramping WAY up!  AND I LOVED IT!!!!

To be continued…

(Note:  This post was first published October 14, 2012.  I have unpublished all posts relating to “the story” and am revising them with the benefit of 5 additional years of hindsight.)

 

 

 

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