We’re still exercising regularly, eating healthy, and having sex almost every day – and often more than once a day!  Sexy Hubby still loves my library card, and my pussy is still silky smooth!  The next super significant event is a few months away, so I thought I’d go over some odds and ends. 

Making Peace with My Pussy

I mentioned spending some very enjoyable time exploring Sexy Hubby’s body.  Crazy that I hadn’t done it years ago but there it is.  I was a product of my indoctrination.  I had unknowingly drunk the Kool-Aid.  What I didn’t mention was that I had finally decided I needed to explore my own body – and specifically my pussy.  

Unless you make the conscious effort to do so, it won’t happen.  So I got naked and used a mirror – a magnifying mirror no less – to take a good look.  I wanted to understand what all the fuss was about.  Sexy Hubby took some nice photos as well so I could get an even better view.  It didn’t take too long for me to see the “flower” and the beauty of my flower.  Plus I now had the experiences of so much pleasure because of this part of my body! 

Pussies are like anything else.  Each one is a little bit different.  They’re just like the rest of our body.  We all basically have the same parts in just a slightly different presentation.  And to that I say – Viva La Difference!!

More Research

As I told you, I finally discovered the joy and pleasure one can derive from giving a blow job – because of my library books.  What I didn’t share, was that besides reading my erotic novels, I was also using the power of google to do additional research.  I hit the jackpot with www.askmen.com and their sex tips articles.  It was there that I read an article that included the top 10 sex acts that men enjoy.  I was VERY surprised to learn that performing oral sex ranked just as high as receiving oral sex!  The whole idea of a man deriving his pleasure by giving pleasure isn’t really consistent with society’s portrayal of men.  But between these articles, and my novels, I was gaining a whole new perspective.  I remember the first time Sexy Hubby told me to just lie there and relax while he used his tongue, fingers, cock, and toys to pleasure me.  All I had to do was get my mind in the moment and immerse myself in the physical sensations.  I was totally relaxed and without inhibition.  Lights stayed on, I had no concerns about what I looked like, what my O face looked like, or what noises I made.  This comfort level allowed me to focus on pleasure and my orgasms were becoming stronger.  I was learning how to ride that wave of pleasure longer and longer!!

Anal Sex

I didn’t realize that anal sex was considered to be such a “taboo” act.  It’s something we did from the time we started dating.  However, in those long dry spell years, since we weren’t having much sex, that wasn’t happening either.  Now that we were having sex more frequently, I wanted to be sure that it really was ok – meaning safe.  I googled anal sex and found all sorts of helpful websites that not only gave great advice and instructions, but also validated that this was a perfectly legitimate form of sexual expression.  I’d discuss what I read with Sexy Hubby and we’d make modifications – mostly regarding the amount of lube used.  I enjoyed anal sex more because on the one hand it was safe and felt good, but it was also a turn on knowing that in my books it was always portrayed as hot and steamy, but also “taboo”!  I enjoyed feeling like a naughty girl!!  It was thrilling.  Here was the seed for us, of the concept “sex positive”.

Was Sexy Hubby a mind reader? 

There were many articles and bits of information that I discussed with Sexy Hubby.  But there were just as many that I didn’t.  For example the books I was reading for fun were just that – something to entertain me.  Something very interesting started happening.  Our sex seemed to be mirroring what I was reading!  I asked him if he was reading the books without my knowing and he assured me that he wasn’t.  Sexy Hubby is not a reader so I don’t know how to explain why this happened.  I do know that overall he was more comfortable with trying new things and no longer afraid that I would be upset by the changes.  Sex scenes in my books followed a pattern.  Typically the man first got the woman off with a combination of fingers and tongue, and then after her orgasm, he would fuck her.  Our play switched to this pattern and the benefits were great.  I was getting to a point that I often didn’t need to use lube.  I was getting wet enough all on my own!  The fact that my body was being so cooperative at an age where often the reverse happens was pretty cool!  Anywhere – anytime, also contributed to this phenomenon because I always seemed to be half primed!

Original Goal Met and Exceeded!!

If we go back to my original reason for having sex – my concern for Sexy Hubby’s health, I can verify that the results exceeded expectations.  At this point he had lost over 40 pounds, reduced his waist size by 10 inches, dropped his cholesterol count by 50 points, and was playing for two baseball teams.  Fast pitch!!  My health hadn’t been part of my thought process back then, but I was down 30 pounds, and getting even trimmer as I gained more muscle.  My cholesterol also dropped 50 points, and I could walk all over town without huffing and puffing!

Life from day-to-day was amazing!!  Almost surreal.  Leading up to the next significant event.

To be continued…

(This post was first published November 5, 2012.  I have unpublished all posts relating to “the story” and am revising them with the benefit of 5 additional years of hindsight.)

 

 

 

 

 

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